Rid Yourself Of Approach Anxiety By Detaching Yourself From The Outcome - Part One

When you detach yourself from any outcome in life, no matter what it is, you become a much more calm and less nervous person than you ever were before. Think about it. If you are so worried that a girl will hate your guts when you open her with your first remark, she will never respond positively to a thing you say to her because she will feel that nervousness exuding from you and she will feel it herself.

But if you approach a woman with a "Devil may care" attitude, she will not sense your nervousness at all, mainly because you are not nervous in the least!

When you are trying to buy your next used car and the car salesman continues to drone on and on about what a great deal you're getting on the car you two are discussing, just walk out of the auto dealership if you can't get the great deal you know you deserve.

You will always have the upper hand whenever someone tries a mind game on you such as trying to make you feel guilty about walking out of a car dealership because the deal on the table did not save you enough money. Go ahead- walk out of that car dealership right now if the deal is not to your liking.

I will go into detail about how to detach yourself from every outcome in your life so that you will never have a bad emotional response to people trying to take advantage of your good nature in this post as well as future postings in the "Eliminating Approach Anxiety" category of this website.

You should right now have a high degree of inner game in your personality that will allow you to persevere over many bad outcomes from this day forward.

DETACHING YOURSELF EMOTIONALLY WILL LEAD TO MORE SUCCESS

However, even when you do have some solid inner game built up, you still need to be emotionally detached from the outcome of all of your future interactions with women because your failure rate will be so high, no matter where you think you are in your seduction game.

If you are having trouble with allowing your emotions to take over and you feel dejected over every failed interaction with a hot girl and this feeling has not gone away after you have gotten to this phase of the game, you are WAY too attached to the outcome with your interaction between you and these girls you are not fully successful with.

So what if a hot girl lied to you about liking you and then gave you a fake cell number? Laugh it off and consider that a sign from her that she is too flaky for you or you just were not giving her the attraction to you that was needed at the time.

If you're going to start sulking about every damn failure you will have while learning this seduction game, you will be in a constant state of depression, I'm afraid. And your bouts with approach anxiety surely will not go away when you are in the throes of despair over that last hot girl that told you she had a boyfriend just to get rid of you.

It's just a fact that most of the women that you will be approaching will either be disinterested in what you have to say to them and ignore you, will be polite when they listen to what you have to say and then just go their merry way or will even give you a fake number and lie to you about going out of town or something like that.

Look for "Part Two" of this series in this category.

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